Hi guys,
I am in a confusing situation. During the week of christmas I went with my family and another family (2 of them my buddies) on a caribbean cruise. I met this girl one night and thought she was real cute, and has a cute sister as well. It turned out she is from Canada, I am from florida. Anyway one of the last few nights we ended up hanging out me, her, her sister, and my friend. We were up til like 6am talking shit drinking and whatnot but I played it a bit slow as she was obviously not going to ditch her sister to hang with me. Regardless game was tight, plenty of cocky-funny. The last night of the cruise I ran into her again at the casino and flirted with her a bit, asked her to come get a drink and as a half-joke made her pay for herself, which got her angry and she huffed and puffed away. I went over like an hour later and acted like nothing happened, long story short I grabbed us new drinks and she was all excited telling me i am so mysterious blah blah. Brought her back to my room and we ended up rolling around til like 7am on the balcony. I got some resistance so tried the 1 step back 2 steps forward until we had most clothes off but she wouldnt go past, which is understandable as my brother was in the room and we were just outside.
Sorry for so such a long story. Anyway I told her we'd talk and it just so happens she has a trip planned to my city for valentines day weekend, so i see a serious possibility to revive and escalate. plus she is very cute and pretty cool, so i wouldnt mind seeing her again. The next day i friended her on fbook, and the day after sent her a message asking for her blackberry pin (mistake, i think i shouldve asked for phone number, but im treading in strange territory w so much distance involved). I also jokingly asked about her sister, who is a year younger but arguably cuter (lets say 7.9 vs 8.1) but very boring to me. I mentioned the sister again at some point talking to her on texts and she got very defensive and angry. I sent her a fbook message the next day explaining it was a misunderstanding, i like her not her sister, i was just making a joke, etc (probably also a mistake). she sent me one message basically saying have a good life, take care. then 20 mins later sent another saying "you are actually a nice guy etc etc lets start over fresh as friends" (??? friends?) I interpreted that turn of events as a positive, but in trying to talk to her over hte next few days got a very cold reception (she didnt ignore me, but just kind of cold).
ANYWAY, i met her about 2 weeks ago, and havent spoken since new years. She was very infatuated with me at first and know it is possible to recapture, but ive put myself in a very weak position with apologies and the like, showing too much interest. What are my options here? I would ideally like to get together with her when she comes down in february, but dont want it to be under "friendly" terms.
Jesus that was long. sorry but I need detailed help. Thanks a lot for reading.
I am in a confusing situation. During the week of christmas I went with my family and another family (2 of them my buddies) on a caribbean cruise. I met this girl one night and thought she was real cute, and has a cute sister as well. It turned out she is from Canada, I am from florida. Anyway one of the last few nights we ended up hanging out me, her, her sister, and my friend. We were up til like 6am talking shit drinking and whatnot but I played it a bit slow as she was obviously not going to ditch her sister to hang with me. Regardless game was tight, plenty of cocky-funny. The last night of the cruise I ran into her again at the casino and flirted with her a bit, asked her to come get a drink and as a half-joke made her pay for herself, which got her angry and she huffed and puffed away. I went over like an hour later and acted like nothing happened, long story short I grabbed us new drinks and she was all excited telling me i am so mysterious blah blah. Brought her back to my room and we ended up rolling around til like 7am on the balcony. I got some resistance so tried the 1 step back 2 steps forward until we had most clothes off but she wouldnt go past, which is understandable as my brother was in the room and we were just outside.
Sorry for so such a long story. Anyway I told her we'd talk and it just so happens she has a trip planned to my city for valentines day weekend, so i see a serious possibility to revive and escalate. plus she is very cute and pretty cool, so i wouldnt mind seeing her again. The next day i friended her on fbook, and the day after sent her a message asking for her blackberry pin (mistake, i think i shouldve asked for phone number, but im treading in strange territory w so much distance involved). I also jokingly asked about her sister, who is a year younger but arguably cuter (lets say 7.9 vs 8.1) but very boring to me. I mentioned the sister again at some point talking to her on texts and she got very defensive and angry. I sent her a fbook message the next day explaining it was a misunderstanding, i like her not her sister, i was just making a joke, etc (probably also a mistake). she sent me one message basically saying have a good life, take care. then 20 mins later sent another saying "you are actually a nice guy etc etc lets start over fresh as friends" (??? friends?) I interpreted that turn of events as a positive, but in trying to talk to her over hte next few days got a very cold reception (she didnt ignore me, but just kind of cold).
ANYWAY, i met her about 2 weeks ago, and havent spoken since new years. She was very infatuated with me at first and know it is possible to recapture, but ive put myself in a very weak position with apologies and the like, showing too much interest. What are my options here? I would ideally like to get together with her when she comes down in february, but dont want it to be under "friendly" terms.
Jesus that was long. sorry but I need detailed help. Thanks a lot for reading.