Before the anti-marriage and MGTOW crowd gets all uppity, I have a strict list of 12 major points that I need fulfilled before seriously considering marriage. I'm having too much fun accumulating 2 new lays per month for the past 3 years to give it up lightly... I even do this while I've had a serious GF, so chill TFO.
Anyways, as the title suggests, I'm looking for a girl to settle down with in a serious manner, maybe even have a family some day. My basic requirements are:
Thin
Catholic
Not divorced
Sweet disposition
Less than 5 partners
Younger than 28
Doesn't party much
White collar, professional family
Wowed by me
Professional but not career-driven
Not a big spender
Organized
I've made a matrix of recent and current girls in my life and I've found that only 2 of them hit 9 of those requirements. Both were Latin, and both I met in person after my gut told me go for them.
The ones that hit the lowest (only 3 of those requirements) also happened to be the hottest and the ones that I met through the arts. Notice that bold category up there? Those hotties also scored the lowest on the wow factor. I once read that the degree to which a person's partner is impressed by him the more she is likely to stay and fall in love. So, that's huge, because, by any standard I'm a pretty above-average guy:
So as I write this, I've figured out that I gotta work on making myself more interesting, but that's besides the point.
As the engineer that I am, I also made a matrix of which places I have the best chances to meet girls according to the criteria in the list above. This is what I came up with:
Church Group: 83%
Friend Intro: 71%
School: 69%
Arts: 65%
Yoga: 57%
Bar: 50%
Online: 48%
I can go into it in more detail about how I got to those numbers but any way I cut them the first three places are probably the best. I personally happen to be the most excited about school, because I recently started taking Italian classes at Rice University and just hanging out at the campus with the game knowledge that I have now is incredible.
Where else do you guys suggest I meet nice girls?
Anyways, as the title suggests, I'm looking for a girl to settle down with in a serious manner, maybe even have a family some day. My basic requirements are:
Thin
Catholic
Not divorced
Sweet disposition
Less than 5 partners
Younger than 28
Doesn't party much
White collar, professional family
Wowed by me
Professional but not career-driven
Not a big spender
Organized
I've made a matrix of recent and current girls in my life and I've found that only 2 of them hit 9 of those requirements. Both were Latin, and both I met in person after my gut told me go for them.
The ones that hit the lowest (only 3 of those requirements) also happened to be the hottest and the ones that I met through the arts. Notice that bold category up there? Those hotties also scored the lowest on the wow factor. I once read that the degree to which a person's partner is impressed by him the more she is likely to stay and fall in love. So, that's huge, because, by any standard I'm a pretty above-average guy:
- Good career (engineer in oil and gas industry)
- Well-traveled
- Talended (classical pianist and guitarist)
- Very involved with the arts, as in I'm a donor and get invited to all these fancy event, which girls love.
So as I write this, I've figured out that I gotta work on making myself more interesting, but that's besides the point.
As the engineer that I am, I also made a matrix of which places I have the best chances to meet girls according to the criteria in the list above. This is what I came up with:
Church Group: 83%
Friend Intro: 71%
School: 69%
Arts: 65%
Yoga: 57%
Bar: 50%
Online: 48%
I can go into it in more detail about how I got to those numbers but any way I cut them the first three places are probably the best. I personally happen to be the most excited about school, because I recently started taking Italian classes at Rice University and just hanging out at the campus with the game knowledge that I have now is incredible.
Where else do you guys suggest I meet nice girls?