long time reader, first time poster. figured i’d post this in the newbie forum since I am game newbie, in a sense.
I always had pretty good game and had no problem pulling girls throughout most of my life (both ONS and LTRs) but then i got myself into a bit of trouble with booze…went from weekend drinker to around the clock (literally, all day every day) drinker. Long story short, I haven’t had a drink for about a year and a half and have no interest in going back because girls or no girls, my life is 1000x better now without it.
I’ve had to completely re-learn life without booze and have had great success in all other areas but have found my game to be pretty rusty - especially when it comes to working new girls into my rotation (i still have a couple girls that i hit up that knew me before i quit drinking). I’ve done the tinder/online thing as well as approaches and have been on lots of dates, scoring at least a makeout on every one but haven’t fully closed anyone new yet
the biggest challenges for me that i’m seeking help with are when to break the news about not drinking, how much to divulge about the why, and picking first date venues. any and all feedback/suggestions are welcome.
I always had pretty good game and had no problem pulling girls throughout most of my life (both ONS and LTRs) but then i got myself into a bit of trouble with booze…went from weekend drinker to around the clock (literally, all day every day) drinker. Long story short, I haven’t had a drink for about a year and a half and have no interest in going back because girls or no girls, my life is 1000x better now without it.
I’ve had to completely re-learn life without booze and have had great success in all other areas but have found my game to be pretty rusty - especially when it comes to working new girls into my rotation (i still have a couple girls that i hit up that knew me before i quit drinking). I’ve done the tinder/online thing as well as approaches and have been on lots of dates, scoring at least a makeout on every one but haven’t fully closed anyone new yet
the biggest challenges for me that i’m seeking help with are when to break the news about not drinking, how much to divulge about the why, and picking first date venues. any and all feedback/suggestions are welcome.