Try to do something free (my usual is a trip to the beach) and follow it with a "and then get food"
If she totally sucks, bail on the food
If she's worthwhile, bring her back to your house for food
How friend of a friend is she? Plan B is always do dinner date, then bail halfway through if she sucks.
If she totally sucks, bail on the food
If she's worthwhile, bring her back to your house for food
How friend of a friend is she? Plan B is always do dinner date, then bail halfway through if she sucks.