Quote: (04-13-2015 01:40 PM)INegUThenLol Wrote:
Anybody ever had a girl constantly push for meeting for dinners, especially for the very first meet-ups?
It's this Chinese FOB chick that's a friend of a friend, whenever I suggest to meet up she wants to go to eat at some restaurant. I keep dodging it simply because 1) don't wanna be stuck there for 1+ hours with her 2) am doing my fitness nutrition plan. yeah sure I could fit in a restaurant visit but see no point of spending 15+€ for food when I can eat cheaper at home, especially with some random girl 3) the awkwardness of paying arrangements 4) sitting across each other, no chance of escalating, no physical contact 5) beta bait to extract some dollars
Keep redirecting to meet up at a bar or wherever but she seems adamant on that eating out idea. She's not a 10/10 catch so I see no point in taking her up on it, but how could I just circumvent this issue altogether without seeming cheap or weird?
If you can’t bear to spend an hour with this woman, why hang out with her at all? Do you want to date her or is it just for the bang?
A lot of Chinese FOB girls don't drink, so a bar might not be an option. How about this - suggest meeting for a coffee in a part of town where there’s a lot of restaurants, and then say you decide where to eat when you get there, because there’s a lot of options. That way you can go for a walk (pretending to find a place) with her and escalate from there.
Sometimes I meet for a coffee at 830 to 9 at places which close at 10pm with big parking lots, which are not near bars. After the coffee places closes we sit in her or my car and I escalate from there. Most restaurants close at 10, so there's nothing else to do except sit in the car.
I did have a FOB Taiwanese woman constantly push for dinner, and then in the end I managed to get her to come her to my place.