"It is usually the man who attacks. As for me, I defend myself, and I often capitulate." - Napoleon III
Exceptionally high-value men have the luxury of being able to be passive with women. However, if you don't have the once-in-a-generation social presence of a guy like Casanova and you aren't an emperor (or the modern equivalent), then it's not going to be a very effective strategy to adopt.
Of course, you should still be the prize...which means being the center of her attention rather than putting her at the center of yours. As Casanova said, be the flame not the moth. However, taking that dynamic to the next level, where women are the ones actively trying to win over a man who can select from them at his leisure, takes an atmospheric level of SMV.
Exceptionally high-value men have the luxury of being able to be passive with women. However, if you don't have the once-in-a-generation social presence of a guy like Casanova and you aren't an emperor (or the modern equivalent), then it's not going to be a very effective strategy to adopt.
Of course, you should still be the prize...which means being the center of her attention rather than putting her at the center of yours. As Casanova said, be the flame not the moth. However, taking that dynamic to the next level, where women are the ones actively trying to win over a man who can select from them at his leisure, takes an atmospheric level of SMV.