Quote:Mixx Wrote:
Target: "what is that in your hand? Is that water? You don't drink?"
Mixx:"Well, on my long flight from Europe a few months ago, I read a medical journal that says alcohol decreases male sexual performance (pause and smile for a few seconds).....and I'd hate to be a disappointment later on"
Notice how I DHV's and escalated the frame to a sexual nature.
and...
Quote:Mixx Wrote:
A lot of guys drink because they want to "fit in", or not seem like "the only dork" - Fact is, if you were truly alpha, you do what YOU want, not follow what others do. That, forum players, is a major turn-on to women.
Golden nuggets here.
When you escalate it is much better to be naughty than dirty, and being your own man is an aphrodisiac in itself.