If a girl turns you down, you should walk away.
If you think it's a 'playful' no, and she really wants you to chase, then you are walking down a slippery slope of becoming her orbiter.
There were many cases where girls would flirt, turn me down, flirt with me again and basically string me along because I allowed her to. You start making excuses for her like
'she only turned me down because shes nervous and I need to make her comfortable' or whatever. If you start chasing that just leads to frustration and anger. If you haven't noticed, girls' desire for attention is off the charts high. Its likely she just wants an option and orbiter.
walk away after 1 rejection!
If you think it's a 'playful' no, and she really wants you to chase, then you are walking down a slippery slope of becoming her orbiter.
There were many cases where girls would flirt, turn me down, flirt with me again and basically string me along because I allowed her to. You start making excuses for her like
'she only turned me down because shes nervous and I need to make her comfortable' or whatever. If you start chasing that just leads to frustration and anger. If you haven't noticed, girls' desire for attention is off the charts high. Its likely she just wants an option and orbiter.
walk away after 1 rejection!