Haven't been going out as often as I'd like due to extreme workload. I try to go out 2-3 times a week.
Day 25 -
Met up with a member of the community. We tried daygaming. Goal was to approach 10 girls each. We each managed that. I didn't engage too many women for >3min. My friend did well. Nevertheless I think I totally enjoyed myself, and felt the limitless possibilities. We're progressing.
Day 28 -
Met up with a member of the community. We tried daygaming and then hit some bars. Not too much to say here. Realised how easy socialising is when you are in a good group / have a wingman. I'm getting the hang of it now.
Funny thing, I met a work colleague by accident at a club after midnight, and freaked out!
Day 29 -
Went out alone and met a young French girl at a bar. No fear of approaching. I think I did well to engage in conversation and display high value by introducing her to other people at the bar. I tried physical escalation, but everytime she would just pull away. Looking back, I think I subtely displayed low value on occassions - for eg. letting my friend lead conversation with her for about 15 min while I was just a passive listener and small contributor, talking to a group of Spanish speakers and asking them what some words/phrases meant (not in a good way), etc. I was also not smooth during physical escalation. Things to work on for future.
Day 34 -
Afterwork bar visit with 2 friends. Enjoyed myself. Key focus for next week is to engage conversations for >15min (bodylanguage + multiple threads + no filter - in that order)
Day 25 -
Met up with a member of the community. We tried daygaming. Goal was to approach 10 girls each. We each managed that. I didn't engage too many women for >3min. My friend did well. Nevertheless I think I totally enjoyed myself, and felt the limitless possibilities. We're progressing.
Day 28 -
Met up with a member of the community. We tried daygaming and then hit some bars. Not too much to say here. Realised how easy socialising is when you are in a good group / have a wingman. I'm getting the hang of it now.
Funny thing, I met a work colleague by accident at a club after midnight, and freaked out!
Day 29 -
Went out alone and met a young French girl at a bar. No fear of approaching. I think I did well to engage in conversation and display high value by introducing her to other people at the bar. I tried physical escalation, but everytime she would just pull away. Looking back, I think I subtely displayed low value on occassions - for eg. letting my friend lead conversation with her for about 15 min while I was just a passive listener and small contributor, talking to a group of Spanish speakers and asking them what some words/phrases meant (not in a good way), etc. I was also not smooth during physical escalation. Things to work on for future.
Day 34 -
Afterwork bar visit with 2 friends. Enjoyed myself. Key focus for next week is to engage conversations for >15min (bodylanguage + multiple threads + no filter - in that order)