Quote: (02-08-2015 08:44 PM)LouEvilSlugger Wrote:
Kiss her on the first date or delete her number.
Escalating too quickly is usually forgiven, escalating too slowly is not.
This is my biggest confusion/improvement area in the game, and this only pertains to first (and more rarely second) dates.
The trade off is: 1) should I make my intentions known, or 2) should I leave some ambiguity, and let her chase me a bit.
I've done both, with mixed results. I think it really depends on the type of girl you're dealing with. Some girls sleep with guys quickly, others don't. I callibrate based on my perceptions and instincts, but I think escalation at any costs can backfire in a variety of circumstances.