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(02-20-2015 01:30 PM)Gosh900 Wrote:  

(02-20-2015 01:19 PM)worldwidetraveler Wrote:  

(02-20-2015 01:04 PM)Gosh900 Wrote:  

2) Even when they speak a bit of english they are boring!! This is probably the biggest problem I have with them. I'm used to approach italian girls and I have lots of fun with them, sometimes things don't go in the direction I want but almost anytime I have fun.
Good luck to have fun with ukrainian girls! It looks like you speak to a wall.
They tend to suppress emotions and have few or nothing to share.

Just because they speak English doesn't mean they are fluent. You seem to think they should understand your witty jokes. Once women warm up to you they become more interesting.

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3) They are full of complexes. They don't see sex as something normal that happens between a guy and a girl, they see it like a prize to a man, as if they don't enjoy the sex. How stupid and annoying. They use it like a weapon to control men and it sucks
I know that girls tend to protect their reputation when it comes to sex but there is a difference between normal girls (who have sex if you establish the right privacy for them) and psycho girls (who will drag things on and on until you basically lose interest).
As a consequence ONS with decent looking girls are rare.

Yet you refer to them as cheap whores. You are no doubt trolling.

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4) They are gold diggers. For the most part, not every girl but a good proportion of them. They enjoy luxury things, places, clothes, restaurants ecc and of course the culture there is that the man pays for everything. I can accept it on a short term basis (when we start dating), but they want it long term and I can't accept it.

haha What woman doesn't like luxury? Let me guess, you are into hippy chicks.

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5) They are deceptive, really. They want someone that take them out from their country and the majority of them are willing to do whatever it takes to reach that goal.
Some men are incredibly stupid and think that their "girlfriends" are true sweethearts! LOL.
And yeah, at a superficial level it appears it's like that because they'll cook for you, they take care of you, they act very sweet and girly but deep down those are just tools they use to appear like "perfect wife material". Once a man stupidly marry her and take her out of her country who know what will happen! Most of the time something bad happens and I can link you an italian site who is solely dedicated on ruined relationships with ukranian girls. There are really hundreds of stories and they all share the common traits listed above.
There are of course some men who have healthy relationships with them even after the marriage but the astounding amount of ruined relationships shouldn't be taken lightly.

The amount of women that want out of the country is much smaller than those that want to stay and marry someone local. It sounds like you are on those marriage agency sites that tend to cater to the type of women you are talking about.

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6) Money=status. This may be bad or not, depends on your take about it. Personally I don't like it. A girl to me should have other values. If I wanna a girl who just care about money I would hire an escort rather than go to Ukraine. Of course not every girl is like that but if we consider that we'll meet the vast majority of the girls in some clubs, well...a huge % of girls in those clubs are exactly like that.

Yeah, you should value a woman based solely on her personality as well. Ha!

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7) Food sucks.

Well, there are other reasons why I don't like Ukraine but these ones are enough to make my point.

It isn't the best, I will grant you that, but not so bad.

How much time have you spent in Ukraine?

man, it's just my opinion...you can think whatever you want about Ukraine

I actually dated a Ukrainian Girl who was living in Florida with her sister working in a resort. We dated for around a year and while she was fluent in English the conversations were absent at dinner. She was stoic and did not appreciate my humor too much. She laughed at odd things and had a way of making a farting sound with her mouth to express something that didn't matter.

To be honest I miss her quite a bit. A first the long silences were disturbing and I would fill in the gaps with nonsense and she made sure she let me know that it was nonsense. She wouldn't play mind games at all and put me in my place when I tried to start shit. Looking back I think that was the healthiest relationship I have ever had.

She's in Lviv now and I look forward to seeing her when I visit Ukraine. I probably trusted her more than any other girl I have ever dated.

I can defiantly relate to what you say about there personality being quiet and not exactly on the creative side but I think there has to be some real gems looking for a good guy over there.

The Baltics and Poland are on my list as well. Ill shoot you an email when I get there. Im with you I enjoy conversation and being playful so English is defiantly important. Thanks for your opinion I value it!