Alright after reading through this thread and just some observation seems like headgear is worth a shot.
Also asked my LTR why it is that girls like guys with short hair and/or wearing hats and with out missing a beat her answer was "guys like that always look good because its a low maintenance look"
Also asked my LTR why it is that girls like guys with short hair and/or wearing hats and with out missing a beat her answer was "guys like that always look good because its a low maintenance look"