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Basic interpersonal communication skills and how they apply to dating
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Basic interpersonal communication skills and how they apply to dating

No model of game is necessarily incorrect, but it all boils down to your own personality type. The older method seems to be about being the "entertainer" with your stories, doing most of talking, and generally entertaining her as a means to gain attraction. Now, this only solves one half of the puzzle, which is generating her attraction to you. You still need to isolate and talk to her person-to-person, asking those deep comfort questions in order to open her up for the bang. This type of game will work well for high energy types, or extroverted personalities, however, it is not for everyone, and you do run the risk of being seen as the clown, especially if you don't make an effort to get beyond your attraction routines and into some comfort.

The "newer" method of game seems to be more optimized for introverted or low energy guys which will focus more on showing your interest from the start (i.e. going direct) and then getting her to a hook point where she takes over most of the talking. As we all know, a woman's favorite topic to talk about his herself, and by letting her open up to you, you are letting her become more comfortable with you from the start. By going direct, and having good dominant body language, you generate most of the attraction that you'll need, so you won't have to worry about the friend zone. In my experience, you would only fall into the friend zone from this method if you fail to escalate by touching or going for the kiss.

So there you have the two general methods, and this by no means limits it all down. I would be willing to bet there's a lot of mixing of these two general mindsets for most guys, but that's for you to determine what works best for you. Are you a low energy or a high energy guy? What method feels like it would better for you? Try it and report back. When you get your next bangs, analyze what you did that worked and piece it all together into your method. At the end of the day, you are the one that has to go out and find your own method that makes the girls want to play "hide the pickle" [Image: lol.gif]
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