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(12-26-2014 02:52 PM)VolandoVengoVolandoVoy Wrote:  

Family is first.
So you may want to examine your decision in terms of your relationship with your grandparents, and then plan around that.
Or at least try and figure out a way to spend more time with them a couple times a year while you are living abroad.

While your parents are alive and you like them I agree.

But-
--once your grandparents and parents are dead
--and your siblings if any are either beaten down
--or so conventional they would think you were insane for adventuring in 3rd world shitholes and making out with much younger 18+ women

There is no one in my family whom I want to know who I am.

I don't really relate to my half-nieces etc who would just view me as a
bizarre old fart.

Unless I start my own family, I'm alone in the world.