I've combed over this thread and I wish I did earlier. Would have saved me a lot of money and time.
90% of LTR red flags fall into the following categories:
- attention whoring behaviour
- non-compliant behaviour
- high T behaviour (notch count)
These are not mutually exclusive behaviours. The best predictor of failure in LTR outside of notch count is non-compliant behaviour. It goes beyond simply not listening or doing what you tell her. It also means she doesn't listen to other people/authorities. Short hair, tattoos, piercings, drugs, immoral behaviours are all things people have told her NOT to do, she didn't comply.
What's disheartening is that this eliminates 50-70% of LTRs that are 7 and above. Most of us will ignore or forgive obvious red flags when we see them because hot women are few and far between. I know I did. It's only after I got cheated on I realised how important red flags are and cut my losses early.
90% of LTR red flags fall into the following categories:
- attention whoring behaviour
- non-compliant behaviour
- high T behaviour (notch count)
These are not mutually exclusive behaviours. The best predictor of failure in LTR outside of notch count is non-compliant behaviour. It goes beyond simply not listening or doing what you tell her. It also means she doesn't listen to other people/authorities. Short hair, tattoos, piercings, drugs, immoral behaviours are all things people have told her NOT to do, she didn't comply.
What's disheartening is that this eliminates 50-70% of LTRs that are 7 and above. Most of us will ignore or forgive obvious red flags when we see them because hot women are few and far between. I know I did. It's only after I got cheated on I realised how important red flags are and cut my losses early.