[Kieran]

If you are confident and have good body-language then you don't need to display high value, as she will sense that you are a high value man. Deliberate displays of higher value make you appear like you're trying to impress her. Personally, I will deliberately hold back things that are impressive about me at first, or downplay them (or even make fun of them) if they get brought up in group conversation, because I don't want to look like I need her validation (which I don't).