[Mael]

OK thanks for your post,
I figure I need to establish myself first with a convo and maintain my own frame.

I just need some more practice

Every thread I see on maintaining frame gives me trouble, Whenever I'm out Its difficult for me to get into that mindset, but practice makes perfect.

I'm going to try approaching with the sole purpose of maintaining my frame in the interaction.

Thanks Khaotic I really appreciate those who help