In 2015:
1) Pass 70kg bodyweight (before-30 goal is 80kg).
2) Drop anchor in Asian country (still deciding favourite).
3) To maintain 'full sex load'. Specifically:
- The sex is often enough that I do not go wanting. For me that is at least once per day on average. Dry spells of more than a week are really fucking uncomfortable for me, I can't think straight, I start feeling angry or down, I spend way too much time on dating apps, and a lost lay is absolutely crushing. Hence I need a harem of girls on the go, something that traveling keeps preventing.
- The sex is with a girl/girls attractive enough that I do not go wanting. I am incapable of number-grading, but I know what kind of girl this is.
4) To get a girlfriend who I am comfortable not using condoms with. She will have to meet criteria 3. I resent the 'disconnected' feeling of using a condom during sex all the time.
That's it. Once they are achieved, other goals will emerge.
If I could critique some of the posted goals... goals have to be precise. 'Some more of', 'try', 'move somewhere better' are too vague to be achieved. A goal like 'do 15 of X within time period Y' is crisp and clear. You know if you are achieving it or not, so you are fully accountable.
What does this mean?
1) Pass 70kg bodyweight (before-30 goal is 80kg).
2) Drop anchor in Asian country (still deciding favourite).
3) To maintain 'full sex load'. Specifically:
- The sex is often enough that I do not go wanting. For me that is at least once per day on average. Dry spells of more than a week are really fucking uncomfortable for me, I can't think straight, I start feeling angry or down, I spend way too much time on dating apps, and a lost lay is absolutely crushing. Hence I need a harem of girls on the go, something that traveling keeps preventing.
- The sex is with a girl/girls attractive enough that I do not go wanting. I am incapable of number-grading, but I know what kind of girl this is.
4) To get a girlfriend who I am comfortable not using condoms with. She will have to meet criteria 3. I resent the 'disconnected' feeling of using a condom during sex all the time.
That's it. Once they are achieved, other goals will emerge.
If I could critique some of the posted goals... goals have to be precise. 'Some more of', 'try', 'move somewhere better' are too vague to be achieved. A goal like 'do 15 of X within time period Y' is crisp and clear. You know if you are achieving it or not, so you are fully accountable.
Quote: (11-28-2014 08:55 AM)Redwood Wrote:
2. Increase my payload. No exceptions.
What does this mean?