Quote: (11-22-2014 11:42 AM)poledaddy Wrote:
It was almost like she knew I was a good guy and logically wanted to keep her feelings for me, but couldn't control her inner-hypergamic emotional drive with the temptation of an apparently more "exciting" guy showing interest in her.
People in general have a hard time resisting temptation, women especially so. Morality and resisting the siren song is a task men take seriously. Women don't put much importance on it for themselves, but certainly hold us to it since it's masculine and we subscribe to it.
Allowing her to go to the gym without you there was just asking for trouble, especially if she's halfway decent looking.
Modern day culture (which is under the sway of the feminine) tries to convince people, "If they really love you, then you have nothing to worry about.", "You have to trust, you have to have faith".
Save the trust and faith for God, don't waste it on women.
Any girl we're serious about must not be allowed to have the kind of freedom that allows temptation to occur. Where men are free to have their shot at her. This is the #1 mistake men in this country make. This includes not allowing her to work. You can if you want, but be prepared for the consequences.