@Frenchie
may sound like old aged advice, but I wouldn't really take it personally.
If you had to face threats growing up, then it can make you over cautious, or end up over thinking about situations and interactions.
It must be remembered as well, that a lot of people are pretty insecure, or lack social skills. So they may be a aloof with you or come across as cautious, but its more of a reflection of them rather than you.
Also there could be projection going on here as well, people are very receptive when it comes to picking up others, although its usually registered on a sub conscious level. If your gut is telling you there is a potential threat, just register it down but relax. If you are using this forum you must have some understanding of social dynamic and creating a presence for yourself. Sometimes this can lead to over thinking and looking into situations that aren't even existent.
may sound like old aged advice, but I wouldn't really take it personally.
If you had to face threats growing up, then it can make you over cautious, or end up over thinking about situations and interactions.
It must be remembered as well, that a lot of people are pretty insecure, or lack social skills. So they may be a aloof with you or come across as cautious, but its more of a reflection of them rather than you.
Also there could be projection going on here as well, people are very receptive when it comes to picking up others, although its usually registered on a sub conscious level. If your gut is telling you there is a potential threat, just register it down but relax. If you are using this forum you must have some understanding of social dynamic and creating a presence for yourself. Sometimes this can lead to over thinking and looking into situations that aren't even existent.