From my experience, this comes either
A) Naturally, which means that you are just "asshole" to them, simply a tough guy that doesn't have a problem to be mean to people.
or
B) Because it's entertaining. You do this for fun. You actually love women, but you don't love them like some blue pill guy, you love to play with them. When you finally understand that when she cries, she feels comfortable or that when she is acting mad that it is just the way she plays, then you will have success with this drama thing.
So, basically, first reason you are making her feel like shit is because it's fun and the second reason is because you love women so much that you give them negative emotions since you know that they enjoy it.
They enjoy to feel like whore, they enjoy to cry for you, they enjoy to be dominated and treated like shit. You accept that game and you just test random things, manipulate them so they think about you all day.
This should be your goal
Now, to me, you sound like neither A or B. You sound like you want to create drama just so you can fuck more girls or to get validation from them. Switch your mindset and start doing things for your own fun and watch the magic.
A) Naturally, which means that you are just "asshole" to them, simply a tough guy that doesn't have a problem to be mean to people.
or
B) Because it's entertaining. You do this for fun. You actually love women, but you don't love them like some blue pill guy, you love to play with them. When you finally understand that when she cries, she feels comfortable or that when she is acting mad that it is just the way she plays, then you will have success with this drama thing.
So, basically, first reason you are making her feel like shit is because it's fun and the second reason is because you love women so much that you give them negative emotions since you know that they enjoy it.
They enjoy to feel like whore, they enjoy to cry for you, they enjoy to be dominated and treated like shit. You accept that game and you just test random things, manipulate them so they think about you all day.
This should be your goal
Now, to me, you sound like neither A or B. You sound like you want to create drama just so you can fuck more girls or to get validation from them. Switch your mindset and start doing things for your own fun and watch the magic.