Disclaimer: Many of these commandments may work for girls of varying ethnicity, women are women, but I am just sharing some intel on what has worked for me down here.
About Me: I am a light-haired/blonde white male in my mid 20s. I have been gaming Latinas in Latin America for most of my twenties. Besides North America, it's the only part of the world that I truly know and the only part I care to know. I consider myself quite good looking, not in incredible shape by any means (pretty thin with a small gut), usually rock long hair, and have light features. I have around 30 notches in Latin America, but lately I prefer to date girls short to long-term, I have had a few relationships with Latinas from various countries during this time. I have been to Argentina, Brazil, Chile, Colombia, Costa Rica, Cuba, Ecuador, and Mexico. I am currently in Ecuador and plan on visiting Peru, Bolivia, and perhaps Paraguay.
I admit that many of these commandments will be generalizations, and people may agree or disagree with all or some of them. I will try to touch on regional disparities if they are present. Lastly, I am only talking about Latinas who were born and raised in Latin America; this post has no relevance to any Latinas in other countries, particularly Western ones.
Without further ado, I present the 8 commandments for Gaming Latinas:
1) Leave the North American Game at Home: For the most part, having a little beta game in your repertoire goes a long way in Latin America. Lose the negs, the sarcasm, the heavy aloofness, these things aren’t usually the best way to approach Latinas. There is still quite a prevalent machismo culture among the men in Latin America, and they can be quite aggressive, harsh, and crass. A gringo who comes in and has tendencies that don’t remind them of the local stock is desirable to many, particularly among the traditional and sweetheart Latinas. What this means is that playing a little lovey-dovey game, such as showering them with compliments, making them feel really special, smiling, and being a ‘nice guy’ can score you some major points. Now, I am not saying you have to become or fake like you are a beta in Latin America, actually I am not saying this at all, I am saying that throwing in a pinch of beta-ness can season your game big time down here. Latinas are hopeless romantics and incredibly passionate girls, and if you sweep them off their feet, their passion overdrive can give you many rewards quickly.
2) Comfort, Comfort, and Comfort: The easiest way into the panties of a Latina is to make them feel comfortable. This means that if a girl feels comfortable around you, she is a billion times more likely to sleep with you. Now, there has been lots said on establishing comfort so I am not going to lay it out for you, but things like not being nervous, not acting out of the norms of their culture, being erratic with your game, and being too aggressive/dominating in certain situations will decrease your likelihood of getting laid. Don't force things, escalate physically and emotionally, but don't put off a vibe of impatience or desperation.
3) Speak Spanish/Portuguese: This is kind of related to the above commandment. For the most part, it is very difficult to establish comfort without speaking to them in their native language. Overall, the amount of girls who actually speak good English in Latin America is quite low, depending on where you are. By far the majority of them will speak very poorly or no English at all. Even when a girl speaks decent enough English to have a simple conversation with, they often are not comfortable speaking it. I do not speak any English with any girls anymore whatsoever. Why? It decreases my game, it doesn’t establish comfort as easily, and frankly, you can separate yourself from at least 80% of gringos in Latin America by spitting proper Spanish or Portuguese. Now sometimes I will ask them how their English is and have a very simple and short conversation with them in English, but 98% of my conversation with any Latin is in Spanish or Portuguese.
4) Know How to Deal with Friends: Social circle game varies in certain countries, from high level places such as Mexico and Brazil, to less so places like Colombia and Ecuador. Now, cockblocking isn’t actually a common thing from my experience here, but it is a different type of managing friends. Latinas will often gauge your worthiness on how well you mingle with their friends or family. If you make friends with their friends and they accept you, your likeliness of having sex with the girl you are targeting increases tenfold. This also means that you shouldn’t actually shy away from dates where friends are involved, it happens often and you just have to learn to deal with it. However be careful on hitting on friends, this can cause a situation that is entirely unfavourable to your prospects.
5) Less Conversation, More Touching: Latinas are physical girls. You can say a lot less and touch a lot more and it will be more beneficial to your game than being some conversation bravado. This is true in most places, but especially in Brazil. The amount of girls I have pulled based heavily on body language and heavy touching escalation is ridiculous. This means that within minutes of meeting a girl it is not out of the norm to hug, touch, hold hands, or even kiss them. My most recent lay in Ecuador I was holding hands with this girl within seconds, and I started making out with her within 10 minutes (this was during the day with no drinks involved as well). I have kissed countless girls in Brazil without even as much as uttering a single word to them. This goes for in public places or private, it doesn’t matter; because many girls live with their parents until marriage in Latin America, public displays of affection are actually ‘private’ to them because they can’t do it at home. When in doubt, touch or kiss them; the likeliness of them rejecting you if they are attracted to you is quite low. This is also of benefit to those who can't speak good Spanish or Portuguese, because it won't mean that you are out of the game completely because you can rely on body language and touching game and still be successful.
6) Don’t Shy Away from Relationships: A lot of Latinas are inclined towards establishing relationships. This can weigh against you if you are just looking for the lay. However, relationships form very quickly in Latin America and dissipate just as quickly. Not saying to girlfriend up, but I think there is some serious benefits towards establishing either short or medium-term relationships here. For one, if you are more cold-hearted than I am, you can easily jump ship to one of her friends. A desirable gringo involved with a beautiful Latina is incredible social proof here in Latin America. I don't personally fuck over the girls I date, but believe me I have had friends of the girl virtually throw themselves at me on numerous occasions. One hot friend even went as far to whisper in my ear that she wanted to fuck me within 1 hour of meeting me just because of my proof from being in a relationship with her friend. Secondly, Latinas can be absolute goddesses in bed, but this often doesn’t come out right away. If a Latina is really into you, and that means after establishing a solid foundation with her through time + trust, she will be a sex slave for you. Lastly, the top notch Latinas, like the really good and traditional girls and outstandingly beautiful girls are often unattainable if you don’t put significant work into her. Hell, you might even have to meet a girl's family before she even lets you bang her.
7) Don’t Push Too Hard for the SNL: Simply put, SNLs are not incredibly common down here. I have had my fair share and it’s not impossible by any means whatsoever, but they aren’t as common as other places. I have seen numerous guys push for the SNL, not get it, then not follow up despite the girl probably 100% giving it up the next time she was going to see him. Don't confuse LMR or no sex signals for lack of interest, it's bound to happen to you down here but doesn't mean she won't be all over your cock the next time she sees you. In Brazil for example, the vast majority of lays you are going to get are on the second day/night. Sometimes it takes anywhere from 2-5 dates (or more), this is especially true the higher up the attractive meter is. If you want a lot of lays in a short period of time here, get multiple girls on the hook and keep your dates fairly short, it will pay off eventually.
8) Learn How to Approach Mixed and Multiple Sets: One of the rarest things you will see in some Latin America countries is a girl by herself, in the day or night. It just doesn’t happen. They will either be with family, parents, friends, or significant others. In order to pull girls through day game or night game you are going to have to approach or get pulled into mixed sets. This is where you can use your gringoness factor to your advantage. I have been pulled into sets on a number of occasions just because they know I am a gringo and want to meet me. This is like instant social proof and if you play your cards right, you can actually set off a bidding war between the girls in the set. Be fun, outgoing, and unique and the whole group will be interested in you. Don’t ignore the guys either, if they are interested in you, the girls will follow their lead.
Any comments, experiences, or disagreements are of course entirely welcome.
About Me: I am a light-haired/blonde white male in my mid 20s. I have been gaming Latinas in Latin America for most of my twenties. Besides North America, it's the only part of the world that I truly know and the only part I care to know. I consider myself quite good looking, not in incredible shape by any means (pretty thin with a small gut), usually rock long hair, and have light features. I have around 30 notches in Latin America, but lately I prefer to date girls short to long-term, I have had a few relationships with Latinas from various countries during this time. I have been to Argentina, Brazil, Chile, Colombia, Costa Rica, Cuba, Ecuador, and Mexico. I am currently in Ecuador and plan on visiting Peru, Bolivia, and perhaps Paraguay.
I admit that many of these commandments will be generalizations, and people may agree or disagree with all or some of them. I will try to touch on regional disparities if they are present. Lastly, I am only talking about Latinas who were born and raised in Latin America; this post has no relevance to any Latinas in other countries, particularly Western ones.
Without further ado, I present the 8 commandments for Gaming Latinas:
1) Leave the North American Game at Home: For the most part, having a little beta game in your repertoire goes a long way in Latin America. Lose the negs, the sarcasm, the heavy aloofness, these things aren’t usually the best way to approach Latinas. There is still quite a prevalent machismo culture among the men in Latin America, and they can be quite aggressive, harsh, and crass. A gringo who comes in and has tendencies that don’t remind them of the local stock is desirable to many, particularly among the traditional and sweetheart Latinas. What this means is that playing a little lovey-dovey game, such as showering them with compliments, making them feel really special, smiling, and being a ‘nice guy’ can score you some major points. Now, I am not saying you have to become or fake like you are a beta in Latin America, actually I am not saying this at all, I am saying that throwing in a pinch of beta-ness can season your game big time down here. Latinas are hopeless romantics and incredibly passionate girls, and if you sweep them off their feet, their passion overdrive can give you many rewards quickly.
2) Comfort, Comfort, and Comfort: The easiest way into the panties of a Latina is to make them feel comfortable. This means that if a girl feels comfortable around you, she is a billion times more likely to sleep with you. Now, there has been lots said on establishing comfort so I am not going to lay it out for you, but things like not being nervous, not acting out of the norms of their culture, being erratic with your game, and being too aggressive/dominating in certain situations will decrease your likelihood of getting laid. Don't force things, escalate physically and emotionally, but don't put off a vibe of impatience or desperation.
3) Speak Spanish/Portuguese: This is kind of related to the above commandment. For the most part, it is very difficult to establish comfort without speaking to them in their native language. Overall, the amount of girls who actually speak good English in Latin America is quite low, depending on where you are. By far the majority of them will speak very poorly or no English at all. Even when a girl speaks decent enough English to have a simple conversation with, they often are not comfortable speaking it. I do not speak any English with any girls anymore whatsoever. Why? It decreases my game, it doesn’t establish comfort as easily, and frankly, you can separate yourself from at least 80% of gringos in Latin America by spitting proper Spanish or Portuguese. Now sometimes I will ask them how their English is and have a very simple and short conversation with them in English, but 98% of my conversation with any Latin is in Spanish or Portuguese.
4) Know How to Deal with Friends: Social circle game varies in certain countries, from high level places such as Mexico and Brazil, to less so places like Colombia and Ecuador. Now, cockblocking isn’t actually a common thing from my experience here, but it is a different type of managing friends. Latinas will often gauge your worthiness on how well you mingle with their friends or family. If you make friends with their friends and they accept you, your likeliness of having sex with the girl you are targeting increases tenfold. This also means that you shouldn’t actually shy away from dates where friends are involved, it happens often and you just have to learn to deal with it. However be careful on hitting on friends, this can cause a situation that is entirely unfavourable to your prospects.
5) Less Conversation, More Touching: Latinas are physical girls. You can say a lot less and touch a lot more and it will be more beneficial to your game than being some conversation bravado. This is true in most places, but especially in Brazil. The amount of girls I have pulled based heavily on body language and heavy touching escalation is ridiculous. This means that within minutes of meeting a girl it is not out of the norm to hug, touch, hold hands, or even kiss them. My most recent lay in Ecuador I was holding hands with this girl within seconds, and I started making out with her within 10 minutes (this was during the day with no drinks involved as well). I have kissed countless girls in Brazil without even as much as uttering a single word to them. This goes for in public places or private, it doesn’t matter; because many girls live with their parents until marriage in Latin America, public displays of affection are actually ‘private’ to them because they can’t do it at home. When in doubt, touch or kiss them; the likeliness of them rejecting you if they are attracted to you is quite low. This is also of benefit to those who can't speak good Spanish or Portuguese, because it won't mean that you are out of the game completely because you can rely on body language and touching game and still be successful.
6) Don’t Shy Away from Relationships: A lot of Latinas are inclined towards establishing relationships. This can weigh against you if you are just looking for the lay. However, relationships form very quickly in Latin America and dissipate just as quickly. Not saying to girlfriend up, but I think there is some serious benefits towards establishing either short or medium-term relationships here. For one, if you are more cold-hearted than I am, you can easily jump ship to one of her friends. A desirable gringo involved with a beautiful Latina is incredible social proof here in Latin America. I don't personally fuck over the girls I date, but believe me I have had friends of the girl virtually throw themselves at me on numerous occasions. One hot friend even went as far to whisper in my ear that she wanted to fuck me within 1 hour of meeting me just because of my proof from being in a relationship with her friend. Secondly, Latinas can be absolute goddesses in bed, but this often doesn’t come out right away. If a Latina is really into you, and that means after establishing a solid foundation with her through time + trust, she will be a sex slave for you. Lastly, the top notch Latinas, like the really good and traditional girls and outstandingly beautiful girls are often unattainable if you don’t put significant work into her. Hell, you might even have to meet a girl's family before she even lets you bang her.
7) Don’t Push Too Hard for the SNL: Simply put, SNLs are not incredibly common down here. I have had my fair share and it’s not impossible by any means whatsoever, but they aren’t as common as other places. I have seen numerous guys push for the SNL, not get it, then not follow up despite the girl probably 100% giving it up the next time she was going to see him. Don't confuse LMR or no sex signals for lack of interest, it's bound to happen to you down here but doesn't mean she won't be all over your cock the next time she sees you. In Brazil for example, the vast majority of lays you are going to get are on the second day/night. Sometimes it takes anywhere from 2-5 dates (or more), this is especially true the higher up the attractive meter is. If you want a lot of lays in a short period of time here, get multiple girls on the hook and keep your dates fairly short, it will pay off eventually.
8) Learn How to Approach Mixed and Multiple Sets: One of the rarest things you will see in some Latin America countries is a girl by herself, in the day or night. It just doesn’t happen. They will either be with family, parents, friends, or significant others. In order to pull girls through day game or night game you are going to have to approach or get pulled into mixed sets. This is where you can use your gringoness factor to your advantage. I have been pulled into sets on a number of occasions just because they know I am a gringo and want to meet me. This is like instant social proof and if you play your cards right, you can actually set off a bidding war between the girls in the set. Be fun, outgoing, and unique and the whole group will be interested in you. Don’t ignore the guys either, if they are interested in you, the girls will follow their lead.
Any comments, experiences, or disagreements are of course entirely welcome.