Quote: (10-18-2014 12:40 PM)Parlay44 Wrote:
It's easy to retreat and put out a nervous or guilty vibe. Don't sweat it. Act like you own the place and you know everyone there. Just have a good time.
I know man. I'm way more active when solo. I approach everybody, even just go up to guys to try and get insta wingman. Some are receptive, but many are too scared to try approach some girls.
I talk to staff too, usually bouncers. I do sometimes have a tendency to distract them from their job which annoys them, need to fix that. However because of this I "befriended" a bouncer who is a a top powerlifter and even went to see him train. Talking to this guy makes me look cool, he's the biggest guy in the club.
I include myself in people's groups for a while then move on. Makes it look like I know everyone.
However for my next solo night I'm gonna hit up a different club, this one is just getting crap. I wanna move beyond my comfort zone.