Based on my observations over the past couple years ever since I got into game, your vibe is one of the most important aspects of game you can use to attract women.
What is vibe?
If I could come up with a definition, it would be how you carry and project yourself, how you your presence influences the people around you, and what effect that presence has. I feel I have a good understanding of what vibe is, although this is the closest I can put it into words.
I believe there are different ways you can work on your vibe and each person has a unique vibe.
I believe your vibe is composed of primarily two components: inner game, and personality. To help me put my thoughts into words, I'll give you two examples of two guys with excellent vibe.
First guy, extroverted personality, social and energetic on nights out. He projects fun above all else. You can't really explain it, but just being around him is entertaining. His energy is incredible. His night game although not perfect in other areas, is absolutely uncomparable when it comes to pulling girls in, attraction and attention wise. He would bring in girls to dance, do his high energy routines and physicality. I have never seen a girl become so invulnerable to cockblocking. Dozens of times I have seen girls shut out their friends because of him. The girls night out crew would get angry at their friend for ignoring them and becoming hooked onto this stranger the girl met minutes ago. I've observed his interactions many times, and often girls become very attracted and by their facial expressions alone you could see they are almost in a trance just by his presence.
Second guy, for lack of better terms, has the best inner game I've ever seen. He lived with me for 6 months and I've done dozens of nights out with him. What's impressive aren't his results by any means, but his mindset on girls and life. I wish I could describe it in words how I understand it, it's difficult. Long story short, abundance, optimism and content about life, extrovert and introvert traits, and a personality of self amusement, lacking validation seeking behaviours. His belief system was exemplary, 'being a man is great there's so many ways to entertain yourself.. And we don't always need attention without facing emotional discomfort like women do'. Great energy on nights out on occasion, but many times more laidback, low energy vibe. It depended on how he felt in the moment. There were nights were he'd approach many girls and escalate, but other nights were he didn't care enough about the girls and enjoying himself with his buddies and the music was more important.
Both of these guys I've seen on several occasions attract very attractive girls in night game scenarios. As I've mentioned, I really wish I could describe and detail more efficiently the vibe, presence, and demeanour these guys had. It would be better if I could breakdown many stories, examples and situations that demonstrate what I've tried to explain above but that's beyond the scope of anything I could write down.
The vibe these guys have are no doubt a result of partly personality on its own, but also social reference experiences, and self improvement.
What are your thoughts on vibe and attracting girls? What have your experiences been?
Personally I've noticed overtime I have been attracting higher quality girls. My vibe has been improving, perhaps it's due to the confidence from my reference experiences, or my improvements in other areas of my life.
What would you say is a great way induce change and make improvements on your vibe?
Improving your body language most definitely improves your presence and how others feel towards you. So does putting on some muscle. What I'm trying to hint at is that vibe as I understand it is also on a deeper level.
What is vibe?
If I could come up with a definition, it would be how you carry and project yourself, how you your presence influences the people around you, and what effect that presence has. I feel I have a good understanding of what vibe is, although this is the closest I can put it into words.
I believe there are different ways you can work on your vibe and each person has a unique vibe.
I believe your vibe is composed of primarily two components: inner game, and personality. To help me put my thoughts into words, I'll give you two examples of two guys with excellent vibe.
First guy, extroverted personality, social and energetic on nights out. He projects fun above all else. You can't really explain it, but just being around him is entertaining. His energy is incredible. His night game although not perfect in other areas, is absolutely uncomparable when it comes to pulling girls in, attraction and attention wise. He would bring in girls to dance, do his high energy routines and physicality. I have never seen a girl become so invulnerable to cockblocking. Dozens of times I have seen girls shut out their friends because of him. The girls night out crew would get angry at their friend for ignoring them and becoming hooked onto this stranger the girl met minutes ago. I've observed his interactions many times, and often girls become very attracted and by their facial expressions alone you could see they are almost in a trance just by his presence.
Second guy, for lack of better terms, has the best inner game I've ever seen. He lived with me for 6 months and I've done dozens of nights out with him. What's impressive aren't his results by any means, but his mindset on girls and life. I wish I could describe it in words how I understand it, it's difficult. Long story short, abundance, optimism and content about life, extrovert and introvert traits, and a personality of self amusement, lacking validation seeking behaviours. His belief system was exemplary, 'being a man is great there's so many ways to entertain yourself.. And we don't always need attention without facing emotional discomfort like women do'. Great energy on nights out on occasion, but many times more laidback, low energy vibe. It depended on how he felt in the moment. There were nights were he'd approach many girls and escalate, but other nights were he didn't care enough about the girls and enjoying himself with his buddies and the music was more important.
Both of these guys I've seen on several occasions attract very attractive girls in night game scenarios. As I've mentioned, I really wish I could describe and detail more efficiently the vibe, presence, and demeanour these guys had. It would be better if I could breakdown many stories, examples and situations that demonstrate what I've tried to explain above but that's beyond the scope of anything I could write down.
The vibe these guys have are no doubt a result of partly personality on its own, but also social reference experiences, and self improvement.
What are your thoughts on vibe and attracting girls? What have your experiences been?
Personally I've noticed overtime I have been attracting higher quality girls. My vibe has been improving, perhaps it's due to the confidence from my reference experiences, or my improvements in other areas of my life.
What would you say is a great way induce change and make improvements on your vibe?
Improving your body language most definitely improves your presence and how others feel towards you. So does putting on some muscle. What I'm trying to hint at is that vibe as I understand it is also on a deeper level.