Quote: (09-24-2014 03:07 PM)Carlos100 Wrote:
I think by going for the kiss you will avoid LJBF. However, I thought PUA philosophy taught that you shouldn't go on a date with a girl when sex was not an option, such as a work lunch date?
Old School PUA philosophy is born of the "fast seduction" mindset.
A fast seduction mindset is different than the "game" mindset or the "red pill" mindset.
Back in the day, guys doing fast seduction weren't worried about approaching, approach anxiety, attraction, or comfort and rapport, appearing alpha, sex at dawn, the red queen, or the feminine imperative.
Mostly because getting a girl on a date wasn't the insurmountable task that people who came after thought it was. As pick up got popular, guys with lower skill and confidence levels needed to be taught the basics of human interaction, and then the basics of dating.
But back in the day, the girl thought you were cute, liked you, but wanted sex on her schedule.
So rather than go through traditional courtship of bunch of dates, lots of money spent, lots of time wasted - guys were convinced that a regular guy could get that fast sex that the bad boys were getting.
Funny thing is, the dating world has changed significantly.
WIA