The following information is centered around game, but since game is such an important facet of life period, this can be applied to other areas of your life that don't solely have to do with how you should deal with women.
Your Instincts
It is imperative that you trust your instincts. A lot of the questions that get asked on boards like this are from men who don't fully trust their instincts. They may know exactly what they need to do, but they want to talk about it here, maybe because they need their own opinion validated or maybe because they just want a different a point of view, even if they don't necessarily plan on acting based off another opinion.
It is not my hope nor intention to state what everyone's motivations are, but I will say this.
You know why that girl is flaking on you.
You know what that girl did was disrespectful.
You know you should have talked to that girl when you had the chance.
You know you should never speak to that girl again.
These are things you know; if you don't trust yourself, then you can't expect anyone else to.
That doesn't mean don't talk with others or don't seek the opinions if others, it just simply means, when it comes to most of the answers to the questions in your life, the answers lie within.
Your Rules and Standards
As it pertains to women, the game has to be played by your rules. When the rules aren't adhered to and they are broken, the game must end.
Why is this so?
Women have the fortune of being able to be human beings who literally wander around, mostly aimlessly, in life and have opportunities present themselves to them.
Every man who presents himself to a woman and initiates a conversation, is providing her with an opportunity. That doesn't mean every opportunity is a good one, and it is her job is to sift between those that seem like they would be good and those that would be bad. For our sake, most of us are high-quality men. We may not have all of society's possessions and/or results to show for it, but just the fact that we want to win in life, puts us firmly into the minority; women should want to rock with us, because we're going places, and it's possible they could come along for the ride.
You may not realize it, but we have a lot of losers out here. I recently found out a guy I know has been buying one of his co-workers all kinds of gifts and jewelry. He has even paid her rent -- wait for it, she lives with her boyfriend. He's never gotten anything out of her, other than the idea that he's winning because she pretends to want his attention and take him seriously. She's wrong for that, but nobody feels sorry for him.
Some of these losers out here look like losers, and some of them look like winners but produce losing results. Women are overly concerned with appearances and they are easily led, so they often miss out on the warning signs that will tell them it would be in their best interest to step off. On the other hand, they're so concerned with appearances, that sometimes that miss out on a situation that could totally be a win, but it doesn't necessarily look like it to them, so they don't even bother to find out.
Ultimately, you provide the opportunity, so the game must be played by your rules.
Think about it.
When is the last time a woman presented you with an opportunity?
Not that there aren't some out there who could if they wanted to, but most women are not interested in any way in providing you with anything that would literally change your life by bringing value to it.
That's because they don't value you.
They've been taught to value themselves. As a result, they spend all this time, again, wandering aimlessly, waiting for things to attract themselves to them.
This is why they lose.
To win, they should know that is their job to attract things in their direction. Them wanting to look good, and yes a lot of them do, has to do with them feeling good about themselves, feeling better than the next chick, and using how they look to extract the things they want out of someone who has them.
However, that is simply not enough.
Her looks may help get her an opportunity to be a part of your world, but if she proves to be the type of person that you want in your life, then she will have earned the opportunity to stay there -- until she stops working to keep her place.
This is where you standards come into to play.
We spend a lot of time trying to figure out what women want, what they're attracted to, etc.
Who gives a fuck.
They need to be what we want, because it all goes back to who's providing the opportunity.
If you're providing the opportunity, then the game has to be played by your rules and she has to live up to your standards.
Don't lower the bar for her.
If she can't reach it, then she's not good enough.
Your Instincts
It is imperative that you trust your instincts. A lot of the questions that get asked on boards like this are from men who don't fully trust their instincts. They may know exactly what they need to do, but they want to talk about it here, maybe because they need their own opinion validated or maybe because they just want a different a point of view, even if they don't necessarily plan on acting based off another opinion.
It is not my hope nor intention to state what everyone's motivations are, but I will say this.
You know why that girl is flaking on you.
You know what that girl did was disrespectful.
You know you should have talked to that girl when you had the chance.
You know you should never speak to that girl again.
These are things you know; if you don't trust yourself, then you can't expect anyone else to.
That doesn't mean don't talk with others or don't seek the opinions if others, it just simply means, when it comes to most of the answers to the questions in your life, the answers lie within.
Your Rules and Standards
As it pertains to women, the game has to be played by your rules. When the rules aren't adhered to and they are broken, the game must end.
Why is this so?
Women have the fortune of being able to be human beings who literally wander around, mostly aimlessly, in life and have opportunities present themselves to them.
Every man who presents himself to a woman and initiates a conversation, is providing her with an opportunity. That doesn't mean every opportunity is a good one, and it is her job is to sift between those that seem like they would be good and those that would be bad. For our sake, most of us are high-quality men. We may not have all of society's possessions and/or results to show for it, but just the fact that we want to win in life, puts us firmly into the minority; women should want to rock with us, because we're going places, and it's possible they could come along for the ride.
You may not realize it, but we have a lot of losers out here. I recently found out a guy I know has been buying one of his co-workers all kinds of gifts and jewelry. He has even paid her rent -- wait for it, she lives with her boyfriend. He's never gotten anything out of her, other than the idea that he's winning because she pretends to want his attention and take him seriously. She's wrong for that, but nobody feels sorry for him.
Some of these losers out here look like losers, and some of them look like winners but produce losing results. Women are overly concerned with appearances and they are easily led, so they often miss out on the warning signs that will tell them it would be in their best interest to step off. On the other hand, they're so concerned with appearances, that sometimes that miss out on a situation that could totally be a win, but it doesn't necessarily look like it to them, so they don't even bother to find out.
Ultimately, you provide the opportunity, so the game must be played by your rules.
Think about it.
When is the last time a woman presented you with an opportunity?
Not that there aren't some out there who could if they wanted to, but most women are not interested in any way in providing you with anything that would literally change your life by bringing value to it.
That's because they don't value you.
They've been taught to value themselves. As a result, they spend all this time, again, wandering aimlessly, waiting for things to attract themselves to them.
This is why they lose.
To win, they should know that is their job to attract things in their direction. Them wanting to look good, and yes a lot of them do, has to do with them feeling good about themselves, feeling better than the next chick, and using how they look to extract the things they want out of someone who has them.
However, that is simply not enough.
Her looks may help get her an opportunity to be a part of your world, but if she proves to be the type of person that you want in your life, then she will have earned the opportunity to stay there -- until she stops working to keep her place.
This is where you standards come into to play.
We spend a lot of time trying to figure out what women want, what they're attracted to, etc.
Who gives a fuck.
They need to be what we want, because it all goes back to who's providing the opportunity.
If you're providing the opportunity, then the game has to be played by your rules and she has to live up to your standards.
Don't lower the bar for her.
If she can't reach it, then she's not good enough.