Quote: (09-19-2014 11:44 AM)MY DETROIT PLAYAS Wrote:
Great points!!!
If you come into the interaction with a supplicating frame, then that is what she will grow to expect from you
It also blurs the lines on whether she really likes you for you, or rather what she can get you to do for her
It's cool to give her a glimpse behind the curtain, but we have to resist the urge to go the extra mile, until we know she is willing to invest in interaction in the first place.
I think you can even amplify this idea as even spending just 1 too many nights a week with a girl early on, or always going to her place for her convenience, even if just for sex, will eventually land you a higher rank in the provider role... which IMO is another step closer to beta-provider.
Woman have a switch with men too. One where they like part of you for sex, maybe even the best sex they've had... but after long enough, even if you've kept it fresh and interesting for many months, they'll try to force some level of provider-hood upon you and flip that switch. Frame aside, this is a key decision point in future relations with said woman.