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(09-02-2014 10:20 PM)Distant Light Wrote:  

When you're awesome you're awesome, that sort of attraction doesn't ever die... (if anything it's just dormant)

1 chick STILL is into me 3 years later...Another is still waiting for me to "hookup" a year later but it just simply hasn't panned out yet. The 1 time we almost hooked up 8 months later...I blackedout and supposedly left with a different chick.

THIS.

I'm probably just slightly over average in looks/physical features, but until I became social and created a better life/lifestyle for myself, I didn't really have girls who were attracted to me in the way Distant Light describes above. I probably wouldn't have believed it's possible, but there are definitely situations where a girl can fall hard (oneitis style) for a guy. Now, girls always have more options than a guy so that doesn't mean they will pine for them and stay celibate, but you'd be surprised how badly a girl can fall for a guy.

I've had girls that I only see once in a while still be obviously WAY into me. I've had girls flirt with me HARD when they're in a committed relationship, I've woken up with a girl in her panties and nothing else trying to take advantage of me when I was passed out drunk when I told her in no uncertain terms that I was 100% NOT going to hook up with her. Christian McQueen and others have posted before about deep conversion. There are girls that are basically converted before you ever sleep with them. It would be absolute cake to have them your sex slave/submissive.

These are girls you'd have to do VERY little to maintain their attraction. For one reason or many, they adore you.

Now, girls you attract that are really into you normally require maintenance and it can be a lot of work to maintain attraction with all the other distractions there are out there. You can keep it up long term how Krauser and others have proven, but as we all know, long distance generally doesn't work and the reason is that the odds are stacked way against you.

My longest time frame for a girl to be head over heels for me is 15 years. I didn't even have the faintest idea until well over a decade into knowing her (started in school so most of the time I was 100% clueless). She cheated on her super christian values and super christian bf at the time to be with me (they weren't even french kissing...haha). She was flushed, heavy breathing, and soaked panties in a public parking area as I leaned her up against her boyfriend's high end BMW while he was out of town. The attraction she and I both had was visceral. It was everything we could do to not just rip each other's clothes off and have sex 24/7.

NOTE: Her boyfriend made better money, was in way better shape, and shared all her "christian" values and was willing to pay for her everything. She decided she couldn't be with me because she needed a christian man. Sad, because I genuinely cared deeply for that chick, but I've moved on to better.