Quote: (12-03-2008 09:28 AM)Swagger Wrote:
How do you set the stage differently with women you are intersted in just being friends with benefits as supposed to girls you want to have a relationship with? I have noticed that girls who want a relationship with me seem to hold out having sex early on than the other (but again no hard and fast rule). So how do you guys convey early on that you are in for a good time and nothing else? Do you still take her out on dates, because once you do that, she sees herself in relationship mode and there is no turning back. So any pointers?
Set and manage expectations from the very beginning.
And I mean during the approach, not right after the 1st lay.
You have to be the fun, carefree, sexual guy. A little cruel, a bit sweet, and undependable in every regard. This way she knows what she's getting into.
It's not easy to backpedal a chick who thinks she's on the GF track