[Zoso]

I am in a LTR now and am doing what some of you guys have said: let her initiate. But last days she was complaining that I don't care about her. She wants me to initiate the salute. If I just initiante she extends as long as she wants, and that's ok for me. This is the dilemma for me, between what the forum says and what she asks for. We don't talk by phone or another thing, only whatsapp. I was thinking to explain to her that i will let her initiate and mark the rhythm (and that it's not that i don't care about her, just don't want to bore her), but not sure if it's a good idea.