I'll try to keep this short as possible- I could use some suggestions guys.
I've been on this site for about a year but not really the past 6 months. last summer I was into trying some of the things I read here but somewhere along the way just lost interest.
I've been focusing a lot on my job, my kid, and most of this year getting myself back in good physical shape - lifting more and eating better than I have in years. relaxing when I get the chance.
what's missing are friends and women. its embarrassing how long its been since I've banged a chick - 1.5 years. and what's worse is I know it doesn't have to be this way. friends from the past are moving on with their lives and going out is few and far between. I don't have a group of 'boys' that I go out with and wondering as I get older if ill ever have this. haven't been out solo for a while.
getting older. I'm 37, white, 6' 0 athletic but not built. decent looking but as one of my older male friends and sort of a mentor - says - who gives a fuck about that lol. im clean cut, don't smoke, have good hygiene, im smart and work in management - drink socially and like going out...I feel like im in my 20's! I have a lot of good tools, but as I look around, I find that women or even people just aren't interested.
is it my look, my personality - i'm nice, I smile - friendly - not extremely outgoing but I laugh a lot and look pleasant. I feel like my life and me - may be boring to outsiders and I don't have much to offer other people - I don't feel connected like a lot of people are.
ill be honest I also have a problem with my vision and a condition where it cant be corrected. I see well enough to drive but its touch seeing details so that knocks enjoyment out of a lot of things. it also may make me look a little awkward at times, how I hold myself, my stare etc.
my history - ive had a lot of girlfriends but have not dated a lot. I have high sexual energy but I don't give it off. I've done a lot of experimenting in bed - tying girls up handcuffs etc - I know w what i'm doing and im good at it lol - the problem is getting girls there.
ive tried online dating but my age definitely holds be back, I also don't look like a hot player or bad boy, and honestly a lot of girls personality, writing skills and sense of humor suck when it comes to online anyway.
fuck guys - how can an older dude like me turn this around? id be happy just dating and banging girls consistently for once in my life.
I've been on this site for about a year but not really the past 6 months. last summer I was into trying some of the things I read here but somewhere along the way just lost interest.
I've been focusing a lot on my job, my kid, and most of this year getting myself back in good physical shape - lifting more and eating better than I have in years. relaxing when I get the chance.
what's missing are friends and women. its embarrassing how long its been since I've banged a chick - 1.5 years. and what's worse is I know it doesn't have to be this way. friends from the past are moving on with their lives and going out is few and far between. I don't have a group of 'boys' that I go out with and wondering as I get older if ill ever have this. haven't been out solo for a while.
getting older. I'm 37, white, 6' 0 athletic but not built. decent looking but as one of my older male friends and sort of a mentor - says - who gives a fuck about that lol. im clean cut, don't smoke, have good hygiene, im smart and work in management - drink socially and like going out...I feel like im in my 20's! I have a lot of good tools, but as I look around, I find that women or even people just aren't interested.
is it my look, my personality - i'm nice, I smile - friendly - not extremely outgoing but I laugh a lot and look pleasant. I feel like my life and me - may be boring to outsiders and I don't have much to offer other people - I don't feel connected like a lot of people are.
ill be honest I also have a problem with my vision and a condition where it cant be corrected. I see well enough to drive but its touch seeing details so that knocks enjoyment out of a lot of things. it also may make me look a little awkward at times, how I hold myself, my stare etc.
my history - ive had a lot of girlfriends but have not dated a lot. I have high sexual energy but I don't give it off. I've done a lot of experimenting in bed - tying girls up handcuffs etc - I know w what i'm doing and im good at it lol - the problem is getting girls there.
ive tried online dating but my age definitely holds be back, I also don't look like a hot player or bad boy, and honestly a lot of girls personality, writing skills and sense of humor suck when it comes to online anyway.
fuck guys - how can an older dude like me turn this around? id be happy just dating and banging girls consistently for once in my life.