I really feel for the guy, but at the same time I gotta wonder why he or other guys in his situation just don't drain bank account* and head off to Thailand or the Philippines to start a new life. Yeah, your life as you know it is pretty much already dead when the family courts get through with you. You might as well end it by starting anew.
*There is a smart way and a stupid way to do this--I advocate the smart way.
*There is a smart way and a stupid way to do this--I advocate the smart way.