Quote: (06-12-2014 12:51 PM)invictusiii Wrote:Exactly.
Quote: (06-07-2014 07:57 PM)Great Ape Wrote:
Rereading my first post, I must say...damn, it was a dark day when I wrote that.
I'm glad I did, it definitely describes my sentiments from time to time, and you guys gave me some good advice and told me what I needed to hear.
As for working on my game, I think I probably need to get input from other people (either professional or a wingman) on what I'm doing wrong. There might be something subtly wrong with my body language and facial expressions, or other odd mannerisms I have, that is unsettling to girls.
I don't have that much trouble getting girls' numbers and occasionally getting dates, I just don't end up banging those girls, they get turned off by me in the meanwhile.
The funny thing is that some of my acquaintances think I have good game because they've seen me approach hot girls and get their numbers. I've mastered the first 15 minutes of interaction but those skills don't generalize. Maybe I should look at this at this is a general issue of social skills, not just game, but it's not clear what's the right way to work on it.
On these dates are you escalating? Are you pushing for sex as fast as you can? If not, that could be your problem. You need to be unapologetic about your desire to have sex with the women you meet. It may seem like the wrong thing to do but they will thank you for it in more ways than one.
You can always 'apologise' for being too manly, but you can never convince a girl with "I'll be more manly next time".