[AneroidOcean]

(05-29-2014 08:24 PM)Onto Wrote:  

What we really want is both the good girl and the bad girl. Problem is, the characteristics of each are not just contradictory but antinomic, meaning the very definition of the good requires the non-existence of the bad and vice-versa.

Sure, it's fun to turn a good girl into a bad one, but then you've let the genie out of the bottle and she no longer is the sweet good girl anymore. Same if you convert a slut into a nun.

The answer is to try an find someone that is enough of a balance between the two that's right for you.