[conservative]

I just experienced this a day ago (look at my thread where I ditched the girl and then tried to re-connect with her). I was thinking about her and reconnecting the whole time. She seemed special (she is to some degree) and my mind was like there could be no clone for this thing.

Then I just lined up another date that seems very promising. And now I'm not giving a shit really.

Oneitis happens when you don't have options. So you are trying to make things work with what seems to you the only option.