Quote: (05-19-2014 06:37 PM)Fujiwara Wrote:
"Gay. Cancel those plans"
If this doesn't work, then "cool"
Ok... I am not going to say that I have not been able to get a girl to cancel her plans because i have... but it is a hard sell and weakens your position. when a girl turns you down the main approach that works in my experience is to agree and make her look childish (i.e. "of course you don't want to have dinner at a great restaurant a lot of people don't like such amazing food....) personalize this and make it funnier
i get that "cool" is just a thing to say like "ok", but (and no offense) but i think it is counterproductive to say "cool". here is one way to think about it: what if you had dinner plans with your friends and the girl was asking you out. if she said "cool" when you turned her down without offering a counter proposal what would you think? is that "cool"? not really very cool