This has all of the tell tale signs of a troll post except one: OP plunked down for gold. I'll give him the benefit of the doubt.
To OP: Cancel your ticket and try to get a refund. You admit you're a newbie which means you aren't getting much play stateside. Traveling for a girl is always a bad idea, but traveling to a third world country where you don't speak the language is an even worse one. On top of that you think you probably won't get any action from her, but she's the type of girl you would marry?! You don't know the first thing about her. This girl most likely views you as an ATM and has a couple of other suckers on the line as well. Focus on getting your game together at home. This forum is a great place to learn from.
To OP: Cancel your ticket and try to get a refund. You admit you're a newbie which means you aren't getting much play stateside. Traveling for a girl is always a bad idea, but traveling to a third world country where you don't speak the language is an even worse one. On top of that you think you probably won't get any action from her, but she's the type of girl you would marry?! You don't know the first thing about her. This girl most likely views you as an ATM and has a couple of other suckers on the line as well. Focus on getting your game together at home. This forum is a great place to learn from.