Summary: I'm trying to decide if I should fly to Rio for a weekend to meet up with a girl.
Background: I met this girl in Rio on my last night there about 2 months ago. We made out at the bar for awhile, she seemed relatively conservative and absolutely refused to come home with me that night. We met up the next day for lunch and had a great time and hooked up some in the back seat of her car, but no bang. We have been whatsapping / facetiming to a diminishing degree since I have been back. She's about a 7.5, very sweet and feminine, but doesn't speak great English (I speak no Portuguese either) I'm not exactly starving for pussy, I banged a girl there the night before I met her, but I would really like to bang this girl and maybe more. For whatever reason which I can't explain here, I can fly anywhere for free in business class, but can really only stay for the weekend. It's about a 10 hour flight from where I live. We kind of have next weekend set as a tentative date for me to come back and I would get about 30 hours on the ground there. We had tentative plans for me to come about 4 weeks ago, but she made an excuse about 3 days before that trip saying she had an exam which was a lie, because I saw on her public Instagram profile (that she doesn't know I can see) she was at a concert in another part of Brazil. She says she really wants to see me again. How do I make this trip without looking like a total bitch that flies 10 hours to see one girl that I might not even bang. If for some reason she flakes last minute or if I go all the way over there and don't get it in I will be very pissed. I'm just not sure how to go about this without looking like a beta bitch. Please advise on my best course of action.
Background: I met this girl in Rio on my last night there about 2 months ago. We made out at the bar for awhile, she seemed relatively conservative and absolutely refused to come home with me that night. We met up the next day for lunch and had a great time and hooked up some in the back seat of her car, but no bang. We have been whatsapping / facetiming to a diminishing degree since I have been back. She's about a 7.5, very sweet and feminine, but doesn't speak great English (I speak no Portuguese either) I'm not exactly starving for pussy, I banged a girl there the night before I met her, but I would really like to bang this girl and maybe more. For whatever reason which I can't explain here, I can fly anywhere for free in business class, but can really only stay for the weekend. It's about a 10 hour flight from where I live. We kind of have next weekend set as a tentative date for me to come back and I would get about 30 hours on the ground there. We had tentative plans for me to come about 4 weeks ago, but she made an excuse about 3 days before that trip saying she had an exam which was a lie, because I saw on her public Instagram profile (that she doesn't know I can see) she was at a concert in another part of Brazil. She says she really wants to see me again. How do I make this trip without looking like a total bitch that flies 10 hours to see one girl that I might not even bang. If for some reason she flakes last minute or if I go all the way over there and don't get it in I will be very pissed. I'm just not sure how to go about this without looking like a beta bitch. Please advise on my best course of action.