To the OP: I just want to say that I've had a LOT of awkward, unpleasant interactions with women. It gets better. And then it gets much better.
And everyone here is going to be giving you this advice and that advice, some of it conflicting.
But believe me, if you keep going out and putting in the work, you're going to figure this thing out and then some. I promise you bro.
My only suggestion is that you go with an attitude of wanting to learn which is different from mindlessly doing approaches. If a group blows you out or a girl gives you a bad reaction, ASK them honestly what you said or did that caused that reaction. They'll tell you.
The girl said you were sarcastic. Listen to her, you were sarcastic. She's celebrating her birthday in a bar, so what? It's as good a place as any. You could've given her some birthday cock but instead you shitted on her choice of venue. She told you exactly what you did wrong.
It's true that asking women for advice is useless but asking women for FEEDBACK is priceless. I still do it and I still learn new shit daily.
I learned most of my game FROM women. They taught me almost everything I know. Not all, but most. I asked them a lot of questions. And the great majority of them, when they see your frustration and your earnest attempt to figure out what you did to put them off, they will often level with you and encourage you like "keep working on it man."
My 2 cents. Keep at it.
And everyone here is going to be giving you this advice and that advice, some of it conflicting.
But believe me, if you keep going out and putting in the work, you're going to figure this thing out and then some. I promise you bro.
My only suggestion is that you go with an attitude of wanting to learn which is different from mindlessly doing approaches. If a group blows you out or a girl gives you a bad reaction, ASK them honestly what you said or did that caused that reaction. They'll tell you.
The girl said you were sarcastic. Listen to her, you were sarcastic. She's celebrating her birthday in a bar, so what? It's as good a place as any. You could've given her some birthday cock but instead you shitted on her choice of venue. She told you exactly what you did wrong.
It's true that asking women for advice is useless but asking women for FEEDBACK is priceless. I still do it and I still learn new shit daily.
I learned most of my game FROM women. They taught me almost everything I know. Not all, but most. I asked them a lot of questions. And the great majority of them, when they see your frustration and your earnest attempt to figure out what you did to put them off, they will often level with you and encourage you like "keep working on it man."
My 2 cents. Keep at it.