It's simple. Wives have sex with you in proportion to how much money you are making at work. It has nothing to do with her happiness or lack thereof. It has nothing to do with reason or intelligence.
You bring home a fat bonus check, her mammalian brain instantly switches on the horniness. She'll assign some other blah blah blah reason to the horniness, but it's just her mammalian brain seeing a fresh chunk of money.
When you are doing housework, you aren't making money, so it doesn't make her horny even if she claims she likes it.
The key to managing a wife is recognizing that whatever she says verbally is nonsense. Smile and nod and sympathize, then rest assured that 5 minutes later whatever she said verbally is meaningless and she's already forgotten it.
Women are all instinct and emotion in the moment (or at least, the good women are.)
You bring home a fat bonus check, her mammalian brain instantly switches on the horniness. She'll assign some other blah blah blah reason to the horniness, but it's just her mammalian brain seeing a fresh chunk of money.
When you are doing housework, you aren't making money, so it doesn't make her horny even if she claims she likes it.
The key to managing a wife is recognizing that whatever she says verbally is nonsense. Smile and nod and sympathize, then rest assured that 5 minutes later whatever she said verbally is meaningless and she's already forgotten it.
Women are all instinct and emotion in the moment (or at least, the good women are.)