a) You don't trust yourself
b) You feel like you don't deserve her
c) You are scared of the dealing with the consequences which are only magnified in your mind
Only you know the answer. Discover it.
a) Overcoming it means throwing yourself in the deep end to see for yourself. Repetition is the father of success.
b) You have confidence issues. Build it up through joining team sports, NLP (Paul McKenna's Extreme Confidence changed me within 2 weeks) or just faking it till you make it. I employed all of these when I had this feeling of not being worthy and overcame it within 6 months.
c) This is just in your mind. Control your mind, don't let it control you. Eckhart Tolle's writing is good for this- teaches you to enjoy the moment and what is going on real-time instead of focusing on negatives and plausible scenarios.
b) You feel like you don't deserve her
c) You are scared of the dealing with the consequences which are only magnified in your mind
Only you know the answer. Discover it.
a) Overcoming it means throwing yourself in the deep end to see for yourself. Repetition is the father of success.
b) You have confidence issues. Build it up through joining team sports, NLP (Paul McKenna's Extreme Confidence changed me within 2 weeks) or just faking it till you make it. I employed all of these when I had this feeling of not being worthy and overcame it within 6 months.
c) This is just in your mind. Control your mind, don't let it control you. Eckhart Tolle's writing is good for this- teaches you to enjoy the moment and what is going on real-time instead of focusing on negatives and plausible scenarios.