Guys,
I went out with a 34yo a week ago, got her both back to my place and drunk, but couldn't get her even to hold hands, although I was stroking her legs, 'accidentally' touching her boobs etc, and she was here for hours. I also tried it on several times but she wasn't having it. She gave me the spiel about hooking up in the past but not doing it anymore and also 'bad things' happening in the past.
She's coming round this evening with some food, we're going to drink again. She texted me saying "there will be no sex." I just replied that I will be waiting for her.
Would appreciate any advice on the best way to deal with this. Thinking that if I hold back a bit she might initiate.
Cheers
I went out with a 34yo a week ago, got her both back to my place and drunk, but couldn't get her even to hold hands, although I was stroking her legs, 'accidentally' touching her boobs etc, and she was here for hours. I also tried it on several times but she wasn't having it. She gave me the spiel about hooking up in the past but not doing it anymore and also 'bad things' happening in the past.
She's coming round this evening with some food, we're going to drink again. She texted me saying "there will be no sex." I just replied that I will be waiting for her.
Would appreciate any advice on the best way to deal with this. Thinking that if I hold back a bit she might initiate.
Cheers