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(01-23-2011 12:24 PM)rudebwoy Wrote:  

I was in this shoe store last week buying a pair of boots, I waited for the sales clerk to finish up with his "customer". The guy was making excuses and finally said he had to come back with his girlfriend for her opinion.
I then tried on my boots and purchased them within 5 minutes, as the clerk is ringing in my sale - I made a joke about not needing to bring my woman for her opinion. The sales clerk responds with a smile saying that guys come in here all the time with there girlfriends, who literally point at the shoes saying NO, NO, NO, NO and YES.

I see so many of these relationships around that is really makes me wonder, what women truly want.

I myself never pander to women and stay strong like a man, but I think women get a bit scared when you don't soften.

Your thoughts?

Generally, westernised women do not know what they want. I know real women from traditional patriarchal backgrounds who insist that they do not want to lead and would rather have a man do so.

You can not be a leader operating from an emotional base. Emotions are designed for immediate actions. Leadership is a long term, planned process just like playing chess, predictions, counter-moves and rational assessment.

A person operating from such a stand point will constantly be frustrated and will lead his/her team into a ditch.


It's still all about supply and demand. I know you are talking about Toronto, beta-ville. After some careful deliberation, digesting of some of this forum's material as well as analysis of my true nature, I have know that beta-ism is not the way for me.

I was speaking to some lizard a few days ago on the phone. She was trying to make certain demands and statements, talking about I was boring and I told her, you are very argumentative.

She hung up on me and when I tried to call her back, she didn't respond.

I sent her a text guaranteeing that she won't find a man until she adjusts her behaviour.

She sent me a text and tried to call me a few days later which I ignored of course.

My point is, women want a male with alpha characteristics.

You may not get an immediate return but the women will eventually come back as they do not respect beta males on a physiological level.

Here is an analogy.

Junk food is EVERYWHERE in North America and many people have it as a part of their daily nutritional intake.

However, it doesn't change the fact that their body is designed for good wholesome un-processed foods.

The quality of a person's life who intakes crap will constantly decline until they make a dietary change. Some will recognise the signals sooner than others.
Sooner or later, they will have to do what's good for them.

Women need alpha males. Whether we exhibit such behaviour immediately or not, this is the sort of mindset we need to be cognizant of and strive towards in order to be truly content.