Couple of thoughts about negs:
1) bad if they come from a place of bitterness
2) why do you feel required to use them? are you coming from a paradigm where you think you have lower value and need to knock the girl down?
3) if you feel like negs are necessary then you are probably talking to the wrong types of women (narcissistic, erroneously entitled, vapid) and are only enabling and encouraging their poor behaviour by providing them with attention (her drug of choice)
4) negs can be ok if used in a playful manner, just don't obsess over them, they should be an afterthought where you didn't even realize that you said that, not something you manufacture beforehand and walk into conversations with
5) let go of the whole alpha vs. beta thing, it can become an unhealthy obsession
1) bad if they come from a place of bitterness
2) why do you feel required to use them? are you coming from a paradigm where you think you have lower value and need to knock the girl down?
3) if you feel like negs are necessary then you are probably talking to the wrong types of women (narcissistic, erroneously entitled, vapid) and are only enabling and encouraging their poor behaviour by providing them with attention (her drug of choice)
4) negs can be ok if used in a playful manner, just don't obsess over them, they should be an afterthought where you didn't even realize that you said that, not something you manufacture beforehand and walk into conversations with
5) let go of the whole alpha vs. beta thing, it can become an unhealthy obsession