[Dalaran1991]

Being a dancer I regularly get girls to go dancing, then back to my place. However being a newbie I still struggle to close.

For example, I got this sweet girl to go dancing, then back to my place at midnight. We cuddle and stuff but she refused to make out. She seems attracted though. But she has been backing off a bit, wanna take things slow and shit. Not the first time this happened though.

Since I already got her to my house (didn't bang) where should I get her to go next? I mean, coffee or dinner or a walk appear... lame since she already danced and went to my house, and that would de-escalate and de-sexualize the whole progress. Maybe get her to a bar? I like to pull the "let's go back to my place, I used to be a bartender and make great drinks" game so going to a bar is kinda counter-intuitive.

Logistically I really want to ask her to go dancing again, close to my house and where my game shines. But would girls consider that boring and think that's the only thing I can do?

If you have other ideas for date to progress from this plz help me out.

Thanks!