Quote: (10-13-2018 10:17 PM)Crash_Bandicoot Wrote:
Bumping this thread.
This is something I've been having LOTS of trouble recently. A lot of my dates aren't getting back to me after the first date. I will note that 100% of my dates, at least now, are online from Bumble/Tinder.
The main issue for me is getting past the small talk and not sexualizing and getting a deeper emotional connection later on into the date. I know I should be doing this, but when I'm on the actual date I often just forget to do so.
Any advice form any of the players out there on how to sexualize/add emotion to a conversation when she just keeps gearing the conversation towards basic shit?
Same thing has happened to me several times bro. I feel your pain heh. I might have to examine my track record from this past year + 4th quarter of last year and see what worked & what didn't. But it almost seems like the chicks that met up with me for 2nd, 3rd date & sexy time (or sexy time on the 1st date) kind of had a strong attraction to me almost right out of the gate. But I do think that game can help win over some of the other sleepers too. Since you're in NYC you should never run out of prospective dates so keep on pushing brother.