Bumping this thread. WIA's posts have changed the way I look at human psychology, women, and social dynamics. His perception of the red-pill goes beyond game and politics.
Here's a (relatively) recent post with some wise words on social programming and relationships: thread-49883...pid1094592
Here's a (relatively) recent post with some wise words on social programming and relationships: thread-49883...pid1094592
Quote: (08-20-2015 05:16 PM)WestIndianArchie Wrote:
Don't let these used car salesman above me convince you to get the Mini Van when you came in wanting the god damned Sports Car.
You're Odysseus and they are the Sirens.
The whole point of game is to fight your natural urges.
Most men are lazy as fuck. Especially with women, his emotions, and his desires. Some of that is innate, but a lot of it is learned and reinforced by culture. The homey Rollo touches on it his blog, but he's not really a game dude per se.
Most guys would rather go with the flow, rather than keep on their own mission. So rather than follow his mind, he takes the path of least resistance. Often times, that's getting into an LTR situation, because it will be easier on him mentally.
It's a trap though.
Just because your biology is telling you to pair off with some hot bitch, you're gonna listen?
That same brain chemistry a couple years back said that you shouldn't talk to strange girls, that you should be respectful, and all that other biological and sociological programming.
That's what the Red Pill was about. Getting out of the social programming. The social programming isn't TV and SJW memes on tumblr. It's not hashtags.
Social programming is the stuff that is in your mind. The things that tell you right from wrong, what is good for the society at large and what is good for yourself.
The social programming is so good in this country, that people spend their lives building the dreams of others.
Ever see old people when you travel. Lotta them waited until retirement to see Paris. Dude wanted to go to Moulin Rouge when he was in his 20's, try and score with one of them dancers. In his 70's, with Agatha in tow, he might not even have the energy to walk over there.
For what? He got a wife and family out of it - but did he ever get what HE WANTED?
Fuck your brain, fuck all that bad advice.
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Most guys that call girls 10's, think of themselves "objectively" as 7's, maybe a soft 8. Rarely do they think of themselves as 10's, as being worthy of fucking a chick because she appears in a magazine or has 100k followers on instagram.
So by using these #'s, the typical guy starts at a deficit. He starts at a place of weakness. He considers himself low value, so he has to either demonstrate high value, or make the chick around him low value. That was Game 1.0.
Nowadays, these guys have regressed even further. They think that they need all sorts of extra shit to even out "the glaring disparity".
Surgery, beards, full sleeve of tattoos, 1% money, exotic cars, fancy place, central location... All that shit helps, but none of it matters.
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You think a real alpha is ashamed to hug on his chick in public?
If he's alpha, what these losers around him think, doesn't matter.
He's the fucking boss. All the real alphas I've ever met, the ones that get shit down, that step into a room and command attention - they're not worried about what the little people think.
Go out in the world and see real players, guys with real hot bitches - and they run the gamut. They can be ice cold players, hard charging assholes, clowns, comedians, deeply sensitive artist types. None of them need be this "aloof, mysterious, dark triad, alpha"
If a bitch thinks her guy is weak cause he shows her some love - THE ALPHA LETS THE BITCH GO. She's replaceable. They are all replaceable.
If he had to change his behavior to keep her around - HE'S NOT ALPHA. She's calling the shots if he has to cater to her needs, and has to mind his behavior lest the queen not favor him anymore.
That's where guys who preach this shit get it fucked up.
The whole point of being alpha, is doing what the fuck you want.
That's why you see real life alphas without chicks. He's doing him.
Real alphas don't tend to have game. They don't tend to care about the emotional lives of the people around them.