Great advice. Clear. Well told.
After she says something mundane, I will remind myself to ask her, "How did that make you feel?" with an eye smirk or lip smirk (attractive smile).
And after I tell my own story, I'll try "Tell me the last time something like that happened to you."
Midway through the (approach) or date, at some point, I find it important to bring up some topic that is flirty, sexual, or to give her a light compliment. To add an element beyond comfort in the conversation. I was wondering if OP might address this topic, or give it further crystallization in a second thread.
After she says something mundane, I will remind myself to ask her, "How did that make you feel?" with an eye smirk or lip smirk (attractive smile).
And after I tell my own story, I'll try "Tell me the last time something like that happened to you."
Midway through the (approach) or date, at some point, I find it important to bring up some topic that is flirty, sexual, or to give her a light compliment. To add an element beyond comfort in the conversation. I was wondering if OP might address this topic, or give it further crystallization in a second thread.