[Barron]

(02-02-2014 12:01 PM)Icarus Wrote:  

What if I got a young, pretty, smart Russian girl, brought her to Western Europe, and got her pregnant asap? Assuming that fatherhood does not make me a beta tool, will having children keep her invested in the relationship? Or would she break up, keep the kids, and force me to pay alimony? Does motherhood make those female devils any less predatorial? Are those little dark hearts capable of thinking of what is best for their own children in the long term?

Frankly, I don't see the point of having an LTR girlfriend unless one wants to have kids. Unless she's a serious girlfriend, I want to meet neither her parents, nor her friends, as one day we break up and I realize I wasted all that time trying to build trust with people who are now utterly useless to me. For me, women are either sex objects or potential mothers of the fruit of my loins, nothing in between is possible. I don't want to spend solid amounts of time with a woman whose womb will not be carrying my offspring within a couple of years.

It sounds like you'd be having children as a means of negotiating/ensuring a woman's loyalty. These are the wrong grounds for starting a family imo.

I'm actually struggling with a similar situation:
I met my dream girl (21) online and after 2 months went to see her in Kherson, Ukraine last summer. Best two weeks of my life, every minute was total joy... but when the two weeks were over, they were over. All I could do was think about how to get her to the US (impossible) and if not, when I would see her again?

She is very attached to her family and her English isn't so good. She's never been outside Ukraine before and never been on a plane or even driven a car. By looks alone I would put her at a 9, but with a feminine innocence and simplicity that is not to be found anywhere in the western world. I know that if I bring her here I would risk tainting her character, but its a risk I'm willing to take.

Even though she's a small town Ukrainian girl, she is very aware of her beauty and still tries to shit test me. I'm well aware of her hypergamous side, but I'm also confident in my ability to keep her in check as I've done thus far. I'm sure this is part of why I like her so much; dominating her innate whorishness is a challenge that keeps me coming back.

Anyway, if its not obvious I definitely have a case of the onezies for this girl, but outside of getting her pregnant I don't know how else to continue being with her. The distance and the time apart sucks. I don't question her ability as a mother or a wife, I just question my own motives; getting a girl pregnant just to see if a relationship would work is a huge risk...