One of the good insights from the video is his idea about what's behind approach anxiety.
The community dogma was you fear approach because the tribe might see you fail.
Instead Tom says when you offer yourself up to a girl, you're really getting a check of your value, and a lot of us don't want to hear the truth.
That is an interesting take.
To massage it into my philosophy, it's not that any particular girl can tell you your "number", but that is certainly how you think about it before you get really comfortable with how you feel about yourself.
WIA
The community dogma was you fear approach because the tribe might see you fail.
Instead Tom says when you offer yourself up to a girl, you're really getting a check of your value, and a lot of us don't want to hear the truth.
That is an interesting take.
To massage it into my philosophy, it's not that any particular girl can tell you your "number", but that is certainly how you think about it before you get really comfortable with how you feel about yourself.
WIA